{"id":780,"date":"2018-01-13T17:51:33","date_gmt":"2018-01-13T22:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?p=780"},"modified":"2018-01-13T17:51:33","modified_gmt":"2018-01-13T22:51:33","slug":"2017-the-beginning-of-the-end-of-the-beginning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?p=780","title":{"rendered":"2017: The beginning of the end of the beginning?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll admit that sometimes, I do wonder why I keep this blog going. It made sense when it started. I was working on a cruise ship, which meant I was far from home and people were interested in my day-to-day activities. But I\u2019ve been home for nearly a decade. My routine is pretty routine, and anyone who wanted the details could just ask. Which is why I now post basically annually.<\/p>\n<p>2017 has made even this seem questionable. Life goes on, of course, but the ascendancy to high office of the internet\u2019s most infamous troll has made the idea of sharing one\u2019s frivolous life online seem small and possibly insulting. And of course, if the forces of darkness succeed in repealing net neutrality, I imagine this site and many like it will end up in the digital dustbin of history.<\/p>\n<p>Plus this site got hacked, and more than once dealing with tech support, I was very close to just scrapping it altogether. As I write this, the site is once again experiencing difficulties that I hope will be resolved.<\/p>\n<p>So why am I bothering? I like having a record of my life (in broad strokes) that I can look at. And now, it feels in a very small way like standing up to a bully. More important fights need to be fought, of course, but in the meantime, I\u2019m happy to overcome the Merchant of Despair in this small way. Plus, my life still matters to me, and I like writing about it. And maybe, just maybe, somebody\u2019s reading it. Long live the written word!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>January<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It seems only appropriate, given that intro, that I should start my recounting of the year with a tweet I liked that barely anyone noticed:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">It&#8217;s still sad, but how much could that family have really loved that dog if they named him Old Yeller?!?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/816817694112698369?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">January 5, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Right?<\/p>\n<p>Later came Second City\u2019s Festivus party. I should probably stop going to these, since I\u2019m pretty sure they\u2019re only inviting me by mistake. Maybe the decision will soon be taken out of my hands. But I thought it would be a nice chance to catch up with people. And it was! Plus, free food and swag, which I don\u2019t need as much for survival anymore\u2026but will always take! More on this later\u2026intrigue!!<\/p>\n<p>According to my admittedly spotty records, my first party of the year was at Chris and Laura\u2019s. I\u2019m sure I was terribly awkward but had a lovely time.<\/p>\n<p>I attend a lecture called \u2018Hacks, Leaks and Breaches\u2019 at the McLuhan Salon in the Toronto Reference Library. I quite enjoyed it, though I\u2019m not sure it was worth (presumably) being placed on a CSIS watchlist. Ah well\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Trump gets inaugurated. Just so I don\u2019t have to keep dealing with him, I\u2019ll just reference that great speech in Office Space. The one where Ron Livingston explains that since every day is worse than the one before, every day is the worst day of his life. That\u2019s the Trump era.<\/p>\n<p>But to prove my invincibility, a tweet from a few days later:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">I tried counting sheep to fall asleep, but it just gave me night sweaters.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/823725851133050881?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">January 24, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>February<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s a short month\u2026but I must have done more than the one thing I remember! But that one thing was a Japandroids concert, and I bumped into a (relatively) young(er) person (Leigh), so I got to feel cool and \u201cwith it.\u201d It was also a pretty good show!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>March (before the trip)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I saw Logan. Which I only mention because Evan got me into an advance screening. Thanks, Honda!<\/p>\n<p>I visit with Andy. Which probably isn\u2019t worth mentioning, because he subsequently moved back to Toronto. But I do like to mention my time with out-of-town guests\u2026<\/p>\n<p>This tweet sets Facebook aflame, with much subsequent debate:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">One day, I&#8217;d like to quit social media, but I&#8217;d probably be back in a GIF.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/841314143391092738?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">March 13, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>The CBS website is all fucked up, and I can\u2019t enter my old March Madness pool with all my old Vancouver friends. In retrospect, based on my bracket, that website did me a huge favor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>March-April (The trip to Ireland!)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t know quite what to do with my fortieth birthday. It was too big to ignore, but I absolutely did not want a party. Luckily, I have an indulgent and very loving family, so we sidestepped the issue with a trip I\u2019ve always wanted to take. We went to Ireland! And assuming it might be the last big trip I take for awhile, I couldn\u2019t have picked a better place!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Saturday (the 25<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>The first day was objectively not a bad day, but it was a bit of a worrisome start. Because the trip was my idea, I felt like I was responsible for the itinerary\u2026but I didn\u2019t want to dictate everything. Mom and Dad had gone early, travelling with a guide, as Mom\u2019s vision meant she would have to enjoy the more urban settings while we were mostly planning to visit the pastoral. So they (in consultation with me) had booked hotels in our jumping-off cities, and also gleaned some on-the-ground wisdom, so many of the macro-decisions were made. And I of course wanted Evan and Jen\u2019s input, though I am more skeptical of advice than they seemed to be, my skepticism coming from experience giving travel advice and taking it. When people come to Toronto and ask where they should go, I always blank, and unless they give me particulars, you just end up recommending the most touristy of crap!<\/p>\n<p>Which is my roundabout way of saying our first big stop was one I suspected I wouldn\u2019t like, but Evan was excited about it, so I conceded. Thinking that the second big stop would be for me.<\/p>\n<p>We started our day in Dublin (after an early arrival and check-in) with a hop-on, hop-off bus ride. Not normally the kind of thing I like, and the cheesy jokes did grate (ugh!), but I will admit it\u2019s a good way to see a lot in a hurry and figure out where everything is. We boarded at the St. Stephen\u2019s Green pickup \u2013 right near a statue of Oscar Wilde. Ireland!<\/p>\n<p>First stop, the one I wasn\u2019t looking forward to: The Guinness Storehouse. Now, to be clear, I like Guinness, and by the time we got home, I loved it. I drank it every night I was there. But everything I\u2019d read led me to believe the Guinness Storehouse was the Disneyland of Guinness. And that\u2019s exactly what it was. (In fairness to Evan, he probably knew that was exactly it was.) Big crowds, lot of unnecessary noise. Which probably would\u2019ve been okay, but it was also really dark in the museum part, so Mom struggled to get through it. And eventually had to give up, all upset. She insisted I park her somewhere and go through myself, which I did, but not fully enjoying it, given the circumstance. Her worst fears realized, and my guilty conscience activated.<\/p>\n<p>But then we all met up for lunch, and it was pretty good. And as far as an unwanted trip went, it could have been a lot worse.<\/p>\n<p>That said, I was very excited for my next stop: Kilmainham Jail!<\/p>\n<p>Except we couldn\u2019t get in. The last tour was already full. Clearly, I\u2019d needed to do more homework and booked ahead. My goal of a flexible consensus itinerary, biting me in the ass. Thankfully, the very nice people at the front gave the last two tickets for a tour the next day. And we checked out the museum. But overall, first day, kind of a bust.<\/p>\n<p>The night, however, was great. We went to O\u2019Donoghue\u2019s, and heard some fantastic traditional Irish music with wall-to-wall people. Admittedly, the walls weren\u2019t far apart, but still, we were packed tight! Fatigue became a bit of a factor, but it did make it feel, in a way the Guinness Storehouse hadn\u2019t, that we were in another land.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=785\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-785\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-785 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1917-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1917-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1917-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=786\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-786\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-786 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1924-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1924-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1924-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1924-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=787\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-787\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-787 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1943-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1943-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1943-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1943-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1943.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=788\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-788\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-788 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1948-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1948-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1948-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1948-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=789\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-789\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-789 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1955-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1955-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1955-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1955-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sunday (the 26<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>After a bit of morning tension among the group over getting moving and then where to go for breakfast, we arrived at Trinity College. Very impressive, with a tour led by a current student that reminded me why we assume people with posh accents are smarter than we are. We continued our tour with a visit to the Book of Kells, where I made a concerted effort to learn history before admitting my limitations and just basking in it. Once I got there, it was pretty overwhelming.<\/p>\n<p>Then Larry and I made it to Kilmainham Jail for our much anticipated tour. And it was worth the wait! I\u2019m not a big picture taker, and I won\u2019t try to recreate the feeling too much, but you could feel the history dripping off the walls. And again, a great tour guide with a passion for his heritage that I relished. Overall, I\u2019m fine with Canadian humility, but hearing a recounting of history with no minced words, and an unabashed take on who the good guys and the bad guys were, was powerful stuff. I heartily recommend it\u2026and yes, book in advance!<\/p>\n<p>For our evening\u2019s entertainment, we started at Mulligan\u2019s, famed for having the best tasting pints in Dublin. Hard to disagree, and I enjoyed the old school feel. But as I was out with Evan and Jen, and we still had our energy, we went looking for a party! It took us a little while to get there, due to some confusion: Jen and Evan were looking for the specific Temple Bar, whereas I thought we were just heading to the area of the same name. So we started our second leg in a fake Temple Bar..but thankfully, we ran into some girls from Sheffield. After introducing Jen to the lady option of putting blackcurrant in your Guinness (not a hit, but good to know), they took us over to the REAL Temple Bar with its packed-to-the-rafters people and rocking band! Good time achieved, and a nice tipsy walk home!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=791\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-791\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-791 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1993-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1993-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1993-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1993-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1993.jpg 1278w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=792\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-792\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-792\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1995-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1995-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1995.jpg 682w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=793\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-793\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-793 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2065-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2065-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2065-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2065-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2065.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=794\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-794\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-794\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2071.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2071.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2071-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Monday (the 27<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for Mom to return to Canada and her beloved dog. I bid a fond (admittedly short-term) farewell to the woman who birthed me almost exactly forty years ago, as I see her and Larry on to the bus to the airport. (Larry, or \u201cDad\u201d, will meet up us with later that day, in case you were wondering why he didn\u2019t merit a goodbye.)<\/p>\n<p>Evan, Jen and I do a quick walking tour of Dublin in the time that remains before we have to meet Larry at the train station to head to Cork. Highlights include Dublin Castle and Christchurch Cathedral. Then, a hiccup. We can\u2019t figure out the commuter train that\u2019s supposed to take us to the big train station. This causes some panic, but we end up grabbing a taxi, and panic subsides as we realize it\u2019s not actually that far away.<\/p>\n<p>After a train ride that was a combination of scenery staring and nodding off, we arrive in Cork. We don\u2019t have too much of an itinerary, but we do check out St. Fin Barre Cathedral, which is astonishing. Then, in accordance with vacation tradition, the Hershfield men have Chinese food, while Jen, suffering her own forms of withdrawal, goes shopping and hits up McDonald\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>A little music at the Oliver Plunkett in the evening, but we made it a pretty early night, appropriate to the amount of traveling we\u2019d done and my impending age shift.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=796\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-796\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-796 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1004-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1004-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1004-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1004-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1004.jpg 1278w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=797\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-797\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-797\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1007.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1007.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1007-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=798\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-798\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-798\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1017.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1017.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1017-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=799\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-799\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-799\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2204.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2204.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2204-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuesday (the 28<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>I slip quietly into a new age bracket and am no longer part of a valued demographic. Oh well!<\/p>\n<p>We begin the driving portion of our trip, and Evan quickly proves a godsend. His competence has always been something of a genetic miracle, and though it\u2019s always appreciated, here it was an absolute necessity. I can\u2019t imagine doing this trip by tour bus, and it was not easy driving, so once again, very lucky to have gotten a baby brother rather than the puppy I wanted at the time. (And, as I often point out, that puppy would be long dead.)<\/p>\n<p>In early appreciation of Evan\u2019s contribution, we make the other stop he\/they insisted on that I wasn\u2019t keen on: Blarney Castle. According to my reading, there were better castles to be seen, and this one would attract a lot of traffic. But of course, I wasn\u2019t (and still am not) so inured to the experience that I would get blas\u00e9 over the QUALITY of a castle, and we were slightly off-season so it wasn\u2019t too over-run. And yes, when given the opportunity, I kissed the Blarney Stone.<\/p>\n<p>As far as I can determine, my charm level was unaffected. But I suppose that\u2019s really for others to say.<\/p>\n<p>The rest of the day was mostly, as I recall, about reaching our destination in anticipation of a big tomorrow. But we stopped at Glengariff (where I indulged in some Robin Hood fantasizing while running through trees in the rain) and Kenmare (very charming), then arrived in Killarney. I can\u2019t remember where we drank that first night in Killarney, but we drank and heard live music every night, so it was somewhere.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=801\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-801\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-801\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2263.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2263.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2263-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=802\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-802\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-802 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2343-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2343-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2343-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2343-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2343.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=803\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-803\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-803\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2377.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2377.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2377-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=804\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-804\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-804 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_7649-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_7649-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_7649-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_7649-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_7649.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Wednesday (the 29<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>The part of the trip I was most looking forward to. The part where I cross-referenced tour books and knew that I wanted to see it all. This was the day we tackled The Ring of Kerry.<\/p>\n<p>First stop: Killorglin, a very pretty town that also had a nice little reminder of my Irish theatre past. There was a Roche\u2019s Bar, which reminded me that many moons earlier, I had served as an assistant to Dennis Garnhum as he directed Rat in the Skull at the Berkshire Theatre Festival. One of the main characters, played in our production by (future) television\u2019s Phil Burke, was named Roche. Kismet!<\/p>\n<p>Then to the Bog Village at Glenbeigh. (Which we almost missed, but thankfully, there was a helpful man at the side of the road peddling wares). It was a little more museum-y than the living history and nature I was seeking, but no real complaints.<\/p>\n<p>Then the incredible Cahersiveen, with its Cahergal and Leacanabuaile Stone Ring Forts. This blew my mind. Centuries-old forts\u2026and there\u2019s no price for admission, no hoopla\u2026they\u2019re just there! You just have to make a small hike and then you\u2019re free to explore them however you see fit! The honor system at work, and it brought out the kid in me, just running around IN AN ACTUAL FORT!<\/p>\n<p>It was hard to follow that\u2026but Portmagee did boast what years earlier had been declared Ireland\u2019s best urinal! While there, we also enjoyed a quick lunch, then went on a bit of a wild goose chase in search of fossils that smartly (I choose to believe) we quickly averted.<\/p>\n<p>Next, we went to something that wasn\u2019t on my itinerary, but we were suckers for marketing and couldn\u2019t resist the signs advertising \u201cBest Cliffs of Kerry.\u201d That said, we would\u2019ve been suckers not to have been suckers, because they lived up to the hype! Quite breathtaking, and though we may have worn out Larry with our running around, the views and the heights were exhilarating.<\/p>\n<p>We then switched back from nature to history with the Staigue Stone Fort. I feel like we may have all had a bit of a funny \u201cHmmm\u2026we already saw forts\u201d moment at first, but still, a fort\u2019s a fort!<\/p>\n<p>By then, it was getting dark, and it was hard driving, so we just made for home. That said, we saw Molls Gap and Ladies View a bit on the drive back, so other than stopping to have seen them, we checked off all my must-sees and were all very overwhelmed. Not so overwhelmed we didn\u2019t go drinking later, but a great day all around.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=806\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-806\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-806 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0041-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0041-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0041-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0041-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0041.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=807\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-807\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-807 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0046-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0046-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0046-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0046-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0046.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=808\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-808\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-808 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2613-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2613-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2613-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2613-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2613.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=809\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-809\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-809 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2619-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2619-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2619-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2619-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2619.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=810\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-810\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-810\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2633.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2633.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2633-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=811\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-811\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-811 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2647-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2647-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2647-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2647-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2647.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=812\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-812\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-812 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0031-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0031-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0031-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0031-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0031.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Thursday (the 30<sup>th<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>I think this day was bound to be a bit of a come-down, as it was following such a highlight and it was somewhat the \u201cremainder of things to do around Killarney\u201d day. But it was still pretty great.<\/p>\n<p>We started with Ross Castle. Between a good tour guide, a good display before entry, and furnishings, I think it was the castle where I got the clearest (still foggy) sense of what living there would have been like.Of all the times I could have been born, the time I was probably worked out pretty well for me.<\/p>\n<p>Then Muckross Abbey, which I loved, as decrepit holy sites always appeal to the romantic in me. Followed by a healthy walk which took us to Muckross House. Not my favorite site, as a manor house is less the history which I was there to see. But interesting nonetheless.<\/p>\n<p>We made a quick stop at Torc Waterfall on the way back. I resisted the urge to sing TLC or compare it to Niagara Falls. It was pretty, but our stop was brief.<\/p>\n<p>As was our stop at Aghadoe Church and Round Tower, and its small cemetery.<\/p>\n<p>The big salvation for this day came at night, as we discovered O\u2019Conner\u2019s, our best bar in Killarney. The band was playing traditional-sounding songs with aplomb (Larry and Evan bought CDs), and I made my version of flirting with locals. Which is pretty much just talking to locals. But at least I did that. Keep hope alive!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=814\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-814\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-814\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1047.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1047.jpg 718w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1047-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=815\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-815\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-815 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2935-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2935-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2935-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2935-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2935.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=816\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-816\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-816 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2937-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2937-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2937-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2937-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_2937.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=817\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-817\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-817 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0057-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0057-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0057-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0057-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0057.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Friday (the 31<sup>st<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>A day that made me believe in the power of marketing. I don\u2019t think anyone would argue that Ring of Kerry sounds more impressive than Dingle Peninsula. Kerry sounds cooler than Dingle (tee hee!), and Ring sounds cooler than Peninsula (Thanks, Tolkien!) But it is definitely must-see!<\/p>\n<p>Highlights of the Dingle Peninsula, i.e. places we went, include Inch (Evan and I ran along the beach!), Dunbeg Fort, Slea Head (with a great view of the Blasket Islands), and the Gallarus Oratory. We ended up in Dingle for lunch, and while the fish place that came most recommended was only open for dinner, we still had some very tasty and fresh Hake and Chips!<\/p>\n<p>It was a late lunch, so our next stop, the Cliffs of Moher, we reached just before dusk. And stayed at well into the night. And also got soaked with more rain than I thought the skies could hold. Sorry, Vancouver, Ireland\u2019s got you beat! Oh, and it was of course spectacularly beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>We got into Galway late, and I\u2019m surprised to find in what\u2019s a party town, we can\u2019t find food! We end up grabbing slices of pizza. Then I have my one moment of party pooping. Larry and I have an early morning tour of the Aran Islands, and Evan and Jen are carrying on to Edinburgh, so we say a quick goodbye. They go off in search of adventure, we go off in search of sleep.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=822\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-822\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-822 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3175-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3175-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3175-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3175-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=825\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-825\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-825 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3145-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3145-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3145-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3145-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=823\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-823\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-823 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3201-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3201-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3201-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3201-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3201.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=824\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-824\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-824 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3219-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3219-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3219-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3219-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_3219.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Saturday (April 1<sup>st<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019ve probably gathered, I tend to be quite picky about tours. So when I heartily endorse the tour Inishmore we got from Michael Faherty, hopefully you\u2019ll take it seriously. He was great AND a local, even pointing out his parents\u2019 farm as we drove by! Very personable, you could tell he loved his home, and for further proof of my sincerity, a link\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fahertytours.com\/aran-islands.php\">http:\/\/fahertytours.com\/aran-islands.php<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Our tour started with the Dun Aengus fort and cliffs. I still don\u2019t like taking selfies, or even really taking pictures\u2026but I thought this one might be worth it. I stand by it. Also, I make my way up rocky paths faster than Larry, so I had some time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I bought myself an Aran Islands sweater\u2026not the brand, but a sweater from there that I liked more and was cheaper AND had the maker\u2019s e-mail address on it, which I thought was a nice touch! It\u2019s very green, and I quite like it. I would no longer allow any friend to call me Kosher Cosby (it was a simpler time), but I still like a good sweater!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Further stops include Seven Churches and its burial ground, some seal watching, and a stroll along Kilmurvey Beach.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Fun bit of trivia for Vancouver theatre types: there is a Canadian on my tour who I think I recognize but can\u2019t place. Later, as I was making a TripAdvisor entry, I see that it\u2019s Kaitlin Williams. Who I\u2019m STILL not sure I actually know, but I must\u2019ve seen her in something\u2026Anyway, small world!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Then after a ferry ride and bus ride, we\u2019re back in Galway. It\u2019s not really our town, as it\u2019s something of a drunken party town for youths, but there are cool buskers which makes for good wandering. Larry throws me for a bit of a loop, as I thought we\u2019d agreed to \u2018skip dinner\u2019 in favor of snacks, when he suddenly throws me a \u201cWhere are we going for dinner?\u201d at around 10. In retrospect, I should have guessed. Luckily, we are directed to McSwiggans, which is actually really tasty and open late. Reality starts to dawn. The trip is nearly over.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-830 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0079-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0079-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0079-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0079-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0079.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-832\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0096-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0096-1024x765.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0096-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0096-768x574.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0096.jpg 1217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=828\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-828\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-828\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1096.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1096.jpg 682w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1096-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=829\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-829\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-829 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1099-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1099-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1099-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1099-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_1099.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=831\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-831\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-831\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0084-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0084-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0084-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0084-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_0084.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sunday (the 2<sup>nd<\/sup>):<\/p>\n<p>A travel day. We take the bus from Galway to Dublin, and though it\u2019s not the most scenic route, I still stare out the window, trying to take everything with me. We spend a long time in the airport, though most of it is at leisure, as we breeze through security.<\/p>\n<p>On the flight home, I watch Manchester by the Sea for the first time, and then make a donation to Unicef (keep it classy, Aer Lingus!)<\/p>\n<p>I get home and spend several weeks walking around with Euros in my wallet.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>April (continued)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s an odd thing getting through a month when you suspect that its best day will be its first day. But April turned out to be a pretty interesting month.<\/p>\n<p>I write what may be the world\u2019s greatest tweet.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">Why did Adele cross the road?<br \/>\nTo sing &#8216;Hello&#8217; from the other side.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/849664563024994304?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">April 5, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Passover happens. I don\u2019t remember anything of note happening, but it\u2019s Passover.<\/p>\n<p>I have the most magical reunion of my life.<\/p>\n<p>At some point, for work, I write the phrase \u201ca lady to the manner porn.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And I redeem my Second City Festivus prize: an Elmline pedicure! In fact, I get there early and do a little spa-ing beforehand. Absolutely something I would never get myself, and would be hard-pressed to get for me and another\u2026but life experience achieved! I&#8217;ve had hot wax on my feet, and it wasn&#8217;t a sex thing!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>May<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>During my weekly basketball game, I make a trash-talking reference to Icarus. What can I say? Someone jumped when they should\u2019ve stayed on the ground!<\/p>\n<p>We do a Mother\u2019s Day brunch. We\u2019re good boys.<\/p>\n<p>I go for drinks with Laura, Ian, Jamie, and Jason. I feel it bears mentioning because it\u2019s an unusual grouping, and I experience an almost unheard of at this point mid-week drunkenness.<\/p>\n<p>Ian from work has a barbecue. It\u2019s not that warm, but I go in a T-shirt because I live around the corner from him and reason that I can always run home for a sweater. The sun sets, it gets cold, but I don\u2019t go get a sweater, because I figure once I leave, I\u2019ll never come back. I share all this so I remember a specific way I\u2019m an idiot.<\/p>\n<p>And there\u2019s a dinner with my high school friends. Which is rarer than it used to be, but always fun.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>June<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A quick reminder\/notification that I\u2019m remembering what events transpired by looking through old social media and Outlook appointments. What I\u2019m saying is I\u2019m sure I did all sorts of fun stuff in June that I didn&#8217;t write down and thus can\u2019t remember. I\u2019m almost sure there was tennis. But anyway, here are some tweets:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">Even though they haven&#8217;t been a big part of my life, I would still like my funeral to be an escape room.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/871731806445481985?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">June 5, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">? I want to know what Trump is. ?<br \/>\n? I want you to Comey! ?<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Dan Hershfield (@DanHershfield) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DanHershfield\/status\/873218468228857856?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">June 9, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Topical!<\/p>\n<p>Something I do remember that involved leaving my apartment was going with Jess to see \u2018The Adventures of Tom Shadow.\u2019 If you ever get the chance, see it. I don\u2019t think a cast has ever been as talented as performers and as wonderful as people. It\u2019s almost sickening.<\/p>\n<p>Faisal has a surprise party. He seems suitably surprised, and we have a very nice catch-up.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>July<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ian\u2019s bachelor party! My kind of bachelor party: archery tag (I\u2019m not as good as I imagined I would be, but I last a long time in one showdown), some time-killing, a steak dinner, and speeches so loving that made the groom-to-be sick with embarrassment.<\/p>\n<p>Relevant to this blog, the Second City and Norwegian Cruise Lines contract comes to a close. The ability of this semi-retired improviser to impress up-and-comers gets severely compromised.<\/p>\n<p>Fringe starts. Still feels like I should be performing, but I settle for attending. My first two shows: Caitlin and Eric Are Broken Up and Murder in the Cottonwoods\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Then, in the middle of Fringe, Ian and Jen\u2019s wedding! I am an usher and perform many undoubtedly invaluable usher duties. It is a lovely affair (weird word to describe a wedding?) and they are wonderful and I am delighted for them. I continue to be delighted for them.<\/p>\n<p>Back to Fringe! I see 32 Short Sketches About Bees, Operation SUNshine, Shakespeare\u2019s Ghostbusters, The Seat Next to the King, Peter N\u2019 Christmas Carol, Life Records 2, About Time (by Templeton Philharmonic), and Weaksauce. I wish I did better on the quantity, but no complaints about the quality.<\/p>\n<p>Shortly thereafter, I have the best week of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after that, I have an It\u2019s a Wonderful Life moment with basketball shorts. Basically, I send out an email saying I\u2019ve forgotten my shorts, and three people bring me spares. I truly am the richest man in town.<\/p>\n<p>My last social engagement of July is a trip to Stratford with the family. Sam and Dan throw a lovely party, where we bask in their loveliness\u2026followed by a lovely brunch the next day, which we follow by going to Twelfth Night. A very nice time&#8230;but I still had to make fun of the hotel&#8217;s slogan.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=839\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-839\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-839\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stratford-hotel.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"603\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stratford-hotel.jpg 716w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stratford-hotel-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>August<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hurt my thumb playing basketball. It\u2019s a serious bummer.<\/p>\n<p>But I apparently recover enough to buy an acoustic bass guitar! So there\u2019s that\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=840\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-840\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-840\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Acoustic-bass.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"603\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Acoustic-bass.jpg 716w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Acoustic-bass-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At a bit of a low ebb emotionally, I have a much needed night out with Ian, Jen, and Jocelyn. There\u2019s grown-up conversation. And some catching up: despite Jocelyn being on my Preferred People list, we don\u2019t actually see each other that much. But mostly, I\u2019ll remember it as a night of riffing and just being funny, which turned out to be exactly what I needed. I don\u2019t know that this will mean anything without context, but when we were riff-mocking Goop, I sad \u201cThe human body is 90% holes!\u201d And I felt funny, and that meant, however briefly, that I was going to be okay.\u00a0 So thanks, gang!<\/p>\n<p>I go see Kat Letwin in VideoCabaret\u2019s Confederation &amp; Riel at Soulpepper. Theater! It\u2019s great, she\u2019s great\u2026we grab drinks after and talk like artists. Again, much needed.<\/p>\n<p>And another nice memory with another nice Kat, this time Janicki. A bunch of us end up on her rooftop drinking wine. A double dose of nice, because she\u2019s a new friend and I\u2019m always amazed when I have those\u2026plus downtown rooftop drinking is the kind of thing us remarkable wits should always be doing!<\/p>\n<p>As summer starts to fade, it\u2019s time to enjoy beer. For Helena\u2019s birthday, several of us end up at Birreira Volo and I try sour beer for the first time. Good to know if I ever find myself in conversation with a hipster. And just because the idea appeals to me, I track down butter tart beers (there were a lot of phone calls, and some serious travelling involved) and share them with friends. Good times.<\/p>\n<p>I swear I wasn\u2019t designing my social calendar alphabetically\u2026but I move on from the Kats to the Kellys. First, a coffee with Kelly Richardson, who I had the pleasure of working with many moons ago. I\u2019m the king of the reunion\u2026and I maintain that royal status with a very nice and overdue brunch with Kelly Zemnickis. Yes, we walked by the scene of a homicide after, but still, a nice brunch. City living!<\/p>\n<p>I attend my first Wolfpack game. We got tickets from work, and while I\u2019m not sure I\u2019ve become enamored enough of rugby that I would go when I was paying for it, I will definitely keep going if it\u2019s free. Very entertaining and a nice time outside.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of nice times outside: solar eclipse!<\/p>\n<p>Then a trip to the cottage. After much grumbling, the Hershfields finally rented a new cottage. And while it had many things going for it, not a great fit for us. And by us, I mean Marty. But always nice to get in a lake and be together\u2026not necessarily in that order.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>September<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I go camping for the first time in forever. I might want to do it again at some point, but either not in September or in a new sleeping bag, because I was FREEZING! Also, it rained like crazy and the tent leaked and was subsequently thrown out. But someday\u2026maybe\u2026maybe\u2026 Either way, always nice to be with friends around a campfire.<\/p>\n<p>My mostly-retirement from improv is interrupted once again by Bad Dog\u2019s alumni week. This time, I do an Improvatron 3000, and though I felt rusty and off-kilter, I still like the people and the role improv has played in my life. Glad to be an alumnus.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=842\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-842\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-842\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3001.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3001.jpg 960w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3001-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3001-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/?attachment_id=843\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-843\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-843\" src=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3000.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3000.jpg 960w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3000-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scatteredflurries.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Improvatron-3000-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I have my quietest TIFF in years. Just three films: The Current War; Professor Marston and the Wonder Women; Downsizing. Nothing that blew my mind, but no duds. C\u2019est la vie!<\/p>\n<p>In one of those weird synchronicities, I do another improv show this month. This time, it\u2019s Matt McCready\u2019s $12 Beer Beer Comedy Show. It was supposed to be a team of people from basketball, which seemed like kind of a fun hook. Of course, by show time, everyone who was supposed to play had dropped out, and it was me and a bunch of very talented randoms. I didn\u2019t do great, and the lights went down while I was waiting with a good blowline, but it was a ton of fun. And watching the second half, for the first time in a long time, I remembered what I loved about improv. Compliment intended.<\/p>\n<p>The crew from work returns to take in a Wolfpack game. Hopefully, it\u2019s something we\u2019ll keep doing in the upcoming season.<\/p>\n<p>I pick up a hookah from Jan. I have yet to use it, but I mention it now so that I\u2019ll remember to have a hookah party at some point soon.<\/p>\n<p>Rosh Hashanah! This year, we do it in a party room. An embarrassing admission, but I finally realize that I should be chipping in. I know, I know\u2026but you get into a habit where you\u2019ve been doing something for your whole life, and because it\u2019s your parents and their generation who host, you still think of yourself as one of the kids. Especially since you know you\u2019ll never have a house and therefore will never host. But all the more reason to chip in, I figure\u2026Oy. Adulthood.<\/p>\n<p>To cancel that out, I play D &amp; D for the first time. I get a little frustrated doing new things, and I made my character a little too broody\u2026but it\u2019s got potential for fun, and it\u2019s a good group. Likely to be continued.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m supposed to meet someone at the Broadview Hotel bar. And when she has to cancel\u2026I decide to go anyway. I bring a notebook so I could do some writing while taking in the view, and I also strike up a conversation with the people at the next table. I don\u2019t know that it\u2019s a turning point for me socially, that I\u2019m now at peace going to places alone that are meant to be gone to as couples or groups\u2026 but it didn\u2019t kill me. And that\u2019s something.<\/p>\n<p>And to end the month, I see the Pixies at Massey Hall. It was supposed to be a birthday present for Evan, but he had a wedding out of town. So I go with Sam, which works out nicely, because we don\u2019t get to hang out as much as we used to, and he was one of my earliest concert-going friends. Nice to know there are things you don\u2019t outgrow.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>October<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I go for drinks with Chris Gibbs. Always feels noteworthy to me. I wouldn\u2019t call him my guru, but I do always feel smarter after being with him even though I should by all rights feel stupider. I don\u2019t know if he\u2019s aware he has that gift, but it\u2019s remarkable.<\/p>\n<p>I haveThai food with my family the day before Thanksgiving, and then have a traditional Thanksgiving dinner with Faisal and Lucy. So I\u2019m able to be thankful for my two types of family.<\/p>\n<p>I go with Ian to a Writers Talking TV event for Kim\u2019s Convenience. In my conversation with Ian after, I am hit with an idea that I still haven\u2019t developed, but I do like pinpointing moments of inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>I have a Second City writing program meeting where one of the other attendees is Paul Bellini. Real me is cool about it, but high school me is slightly giddy.<\/p>\n<p>Helena throws an Enchantment Under The Sea birthday party for Jason.\u00a0 I would elaborate, but that\u2019s a pretty solid sentence in its own right.<\/p>\n<p>I do another Fireside Tales. For this one, I opened and Scott Thompson closed. Of course, it was a story I was telling for the first time that wasn\u2019t remotely funny AND Rhiannon wasn\u2019t there, so I felt odd about the whole thing. But the detail that I opened and Scott Thompson closed is something I imagine I\u2019ll be dropping into conversations for the rest of my life.<\/p>\n<p>And I have one of my State of the Union coffees with Jess. I imagine these may happen more often, but there\u2019s something very enjoyable about having A LOT to catch up on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>November<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I make my first ever attempt at NaNoWriMo. National Novel-Writing Month, for the uninitiated. I make it to a little under thirty thousand words, well below the standard benchmark of fifty thousand&#8230;but not bad considering I spend my day WRITING OTHER THINGS! And I&#8217;m still plugging away on the project, so maybe it&#8217;ll be something yet!<\/p>\n<p>I go to my first Pizza Night at the gym. I just love that that\u2019s a thing.<\/p>\n<p>I attend a book reading by Matthew Weiner with Andy. My favorite part is the hanging out with Andy. Though credit to Weiner: there\u2019s something fascinating about seeing someone so thoroughly convinced of his own genius. Plus his sexual harassment allegations had JUST come out (I learned about them from Keri near literally on our way into the theater), so that put some excitement in the air.<\/p>\n<p>Danielle visits Toronto, which is celebrated in traditional Hershfield fashion with a trip for Chinese food. Ali also joins us and it is a lovely night all around. When the hell did we all grow up?!<\/p>\n<p>I go to see an A.J. Jacobs talk with Larry. I still haven\u2019t read the book, and I almost feel like I don\u2019t have to now\u2026but I still will, no doubt. Ah, the Hershfields\u2026so sophisticated\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I go for drinks with Humber people. It\u2019s fun, and for the first time in awhile, it doesn\u2019t feel like all shop talk. I mean, some, but nothing I can\u2019t keep up with. Anyway, good folks\u2026which is pretty much what I have to show for that year!<\/p>\n<p>And then a trip to Winnipeg to celebrate Vera\u2019s 95<sup>th<\/sup> birthday! There\u2019s a Rae and Jerry\u2019s dinner, there\u2019s a Chinese food dinner, there\u2019s plenty of Jeanne\u2019s cakes, and much more eating. Including dim sum\u2026and den some! I have no idea what a day-to-day life in Winnipeg would feel like\u2026and I\u2019m not TOO sorrowful not to know\u2026but there is some part of it that will always feel a bit like home. A home where I do nothing but eat.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>December<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I enjoy another Cape Breton Christmas. The Spock socks I brought were much in demand during the sock swap, and the people are great. That said, there\u2019s something about me that always suspects the people who LEAVE Cape Breton are the ones who would like me and the ones who stay decidedly would not! I guess it all worked out for the best!<\/p>\n<p>I go to see the Last Jedi with Ian, Jason, and Pete Hill. We all like it and, last I checked, continue to like it. The idea of being angry about it either way mystifies me.<\/p>\n<p>We have our Naked News Christmas party. Like most office parties, I assume, except management contributed nothing and you aren\u2019t remotely surprised when people expose themselves. We don\u2019t always go out, but when we do, good times are had.<\/p>\n<p>Tom and Lindsay have me and Jamie (separately) over for nogs and ciders, and then a few days later, following a basketball game, I meet up with them and Ian and Jen at Dave\u2019s (the bar, not the place of a person named Dave.) It wasn\u2019t my most social of holidays, but I saw these people AND my high school friends (including an actual person named Dave), so many important boxes checked.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn\u2019t too motivated to go out on New Year\u2019s this year. I\u2019m not a big party guy at the best of times, and this year, I was missing someone specific rather than missing someone generally. And that\u2019s tougher. So I decided to spend my New Year\u2019s with a small act of charity that was really mostly for me: I hung out with my parents\u2019 dog Marty while they were out celebrating. I feel like Marty didn\u2019t appreciate the significance of this gesture and was somewhat confused when I kissed him at midnight. (No tongue.) And that was the end of 2017.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Quite the year. Next year in Jerusalem, next year may it not be treated by America as the capital of Israel because the asshole president who suggested it is in jail.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see, despite everything, I\u2019m still capable of optimism.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ll admit that sometimes, I do wonder why I keep this blog going. It made sense when it started. I was working on a cruise ship, which meant I was far from home and people were interested in my day-to-day activities. But I\u2019ve been home for nearly a decade. 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